I don’t even know where to start with this. Its will most likely take me a while to write it, and it will end up with no one reading it. Maybe this is just for me?
Most of you know the trouble I have had with my dads ‘girlfriend’ and I use this term lightly. I’m not sure how long they have been seeing each other maybe 4 years or so. Anyway, for the most of it, she was married (still is) and by married I mean still with her husband. This posed a problem as I generally don’t like the idea of that. Especially since she has a small boy (maybe around 7 at the time) I thought their relationship was wrong on so many levels… You can understand why, right?
At first I spoke to her and was friendly based on the fact my father had told me she was leaving her husband. What a load of bull that was. So in the end, I stopped talking to her. I had seen how my father was changing for the worse, and I didn’t want anything to do with their fucked up relationship.
By my father wouldn’t have that. Apparently although I live at home with him, it has nothing to do with me (sorry, I think it does) and in the end told me I had to either exchange pleasantries with her, or my boyfriend could no longer come in the house. So I spoke to her. False smiled, said hello. Had a quick chat.
Now a while ago, maybe 18 months 2 years, someone objected to their relationship and sent her abusive texts messages and facebook messages (which I didn’t really care if they did or not) and then they stopped. However, they found an un-read one under a false name on her husbands FB account from around aug 10’ (they say he didn’t see it as he doesn’t use it) at this time I got 4 messages from her daughter who is a year older than me and who I’ve met twice, basically asking why I was being a bitch to her mum. I didn’t really understand this as we had been on speaking terms, so I ignore the message and called my dad and he told me they had found the mssg from Aug and thought it was me!
Don’t people think I’ve got better things to do, than make up facebook names and send messages on there. Next thing, I told my dad that just after xmas her son had tried to contact me on fb. I have a message saying ‘do I no u’ I don’t know how he found out my name or what not, but there it is. Needless to say I didn’t reply and ignored it. My father told his gf and now she thinks I’ve been texting/ fb’ing her and trying to get in contact with her son!
Tuesday I rushed in from work and she was there, but its gone to far now. She was in the office with my dad so I ignore them both and went upstairs as I was running late. I heard a knock at my door and it was her asking if she could have a word. I said if it was 30 seconds as I’m late for netball. She came in and asked me what my problem was. I told her I didn’t like being accused of things I hadn’t done. In the end it was a screaming match. She said I had always been rude to her (I think she should of said ignored) which is irrelevant as we had been on speaking terms… Slammed doors in her face (er when?!) And I had been sending her abusive messages and she was going to get her daughter to come and see me (like I care) and then she would call the police (I told her to do it) when I eventually screamed at her and told her to get the fuck out of my room she said ‘no, this isn’t your house, or your room you just pay rent to live here’ how dare she say that my home is not my home. Its more my fucking home than it is hers!!! In the end I slammed the door in her face.
Anyway, I’d love thoughts and comments. Have I been over-reacting?